Scold Me Not!
by Marlene Ellingson | Aug 15, 2015
 A Positive Send-Off to School I had been scolding my 4th grade son almost all morning, every school morning, I realized. He simply did not push himself to get off to school on time! And no matter how I tried not to, I kept nagging him to get out the door. I...
Dad, We Need You!!
by Marlene Ellingson | Jun 15, 2014
The Profound Place of Fathers Dear Dad, I love you. I desperately need your loving but firm limits! Please love me enough to be there, with your wise counsel, your protection, and your boundaries… Look what happens when we don’t have Fathers around us: “Of...Subscribe
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